Friday, January 17, 2014

Reactions

So tonight at work some comments that were made that really upset me. Jokes and laughs being shared over human trafficking and sex slavery. I have lived through abuse many times. It makes me so angry to live though holy hell every day praying for either rescue or death only to have someone to make jokes about it. its not funny. Not even a little. Its evil and all sorts of ungodly awful. Don't joke about it. Not ever. Here are some facts...


Human Trafficking

What is Human Trafficking?
Human trafficking, also known as modern day slavery, is any kind of forced labor. A victim of Human Trafficking is controlled by someone and exploited, or treated unfairly, for his or her work.

How many different kinds of Human Trafficking are there?
To our knowledge, there are more than 4 types of human trafficking, some of which include sex trafficking, child trafficking for sex or hard labor, domestic servitude, and debt bondage. Mostly women, but also some men, are tricked into bondage with seemingly harmless job offers or are kidnapped or sold. Children are kidnapped and/or sold easier than adults because they are usually more gullible and are somewhat easier targets. Victims, especially the younger ones are sometimes sold to Human Traffickers in order to pay off a debt. They try their best to work off that debt so they can be free, but usually have extreme difficulty doing so.

How long has Human Trafficking existed?
Human Trafficking has been around for thousands of years. It started when human civilization began. It became a large and profitable industry for the Ancient Greeks and Romans and continued to exist as one through the medieval times and up until this very day.

Where in the world has Human Trafficking existed?
Human Trafficking has existed and still currently exists in 6 of the 7 world continents. We may here stories of human trafficking in other countries and think that it will never happen anywhere near us. However, Human Trafficking is a problem in the United States as much as it is anywhere else. In fact, it is estimated that roughly 14,000 to 18,000 people are trafficked each year in the United States alone.

How many Human Trafficking victims are there in the world today?
There are roughly 27 million victims all over the world today. That is the largest number of victims of Human Trafficking ever recorded. Considering that there are a little over 7 billion people in the world, that means that almost 4% of the world is in bondage.

Other Facts:
Human Trafficking is actually illegal in the world today, but it still occurs all over the world.
The people most subject to Human Trafficking are those who live in poverty or are in debt. They get tricked into taking a loan from the Traffickers and are promised work that will help pay off their loan. They soon find out though that the job they get is not the one they were promised. Whatever work they are forced to do is a lot harder, more abusive and involves very poor conditions.

Still think it's funny or something to joke about? Think twice next time you want to joke about slavery or abuse or rape think about the millions of people right now being used and abused and reconsider what your about to say.

Monday, January 13, 2014

Challenged

Recently I have been struggling a bit with some personal stuff. Today one of my best friends challenged me to make a list of all the things I am thankful for and it was something I thought I would share with  you all! Mind you these things are in no particular order, just how the come to mind :D

  1. Being fierce loved by God and knowing him as Lord and Savior of my life
  2. Baking Banana bread when I get stressed
  3. My absolutely amazing friends that stand by me always, even when they shouldn't
  4. Both of my amazing churches. Whether I am in Potsdam or Granville I know there is a the body of Christ waiting for me
  5. My job. I may have a messed up eating and sleeping schedule because of it but I am incredibly thankful to have my job right now
  6. Writing! Writing has always been an outlet for me and to be able to write (or bake on occasion) has been a blessed relief
  7. My Blog here at Just Me and Nothing More and all the people faithfully read each and every new post. It is mad encouraging to see the "number of views" function rocket with each new post.
  8. My family. I love them, they drive me crazy and they love me back and that is something that connot be replaced.
  9. Heat!!  I hate being cold and I am greatly appreciative to the people who have built the modern day furnace.
  10. Last but not least on this list is technology. Being able to communicate so quickly with my friends to share, care, love and encourage has been a life saver.
There you have it folks. 10 things I am thankful for today. I am sure there are more but these came to mind today and now I pass the challenge to you. What are you thankful for?

Thursday, January 9, 2014

For a Girl

Ladies. I get it. I do. You think your in love. He sweet talks you. He gives you everything you could ever want. You feel like a princess right? Well it is all fine and great but is he a true upright Christian man? Does he love God more than you? Does he seek to honor you both? If he could never touch you again would you still be in love? Girls here is some hard earned wisdom.The only man worth dating is the one God would have for you. The only man worth your time loves God first and then you. He seeks to honor God and love you. To be a kind and gentle leader. He will never pressure you or push you into anything, ever. There will be no question of your boundaries, he will respect you. If he wouldn't do it in front a pastor he would never dare do it behind closed doors.
 In the words of Kellie Pickler...

Hey, there little home coming queen,
In that back seat.
I bet his brown eyes,
are promising you everything.

I know you want to be just like your friend,
But he'll still love you if you don't give in
If those girls are being honest that have been were you're at,
I bet they'd tell you that they wish they had their innocence back.


It's the truth. I gave everything to a man I thought I loved, wanted to spend my with and it was the biggest mistake of my life. I am not saying that with any agenda either. Protect your heart. Save that special moment for the night of your marriage. It is not worth it to give it up anytime before that. I wish I had waited. That's the God's honest truth from someone who has been there.

For those of you who have been there as well Johnny Diaz offers this...

So turn around you're not too far
To back away be who you are
To change your path go another way
It's not too late, you can be saved
If you feel depressed with past regrets
The shameful nights hope to forget
Can disappear, they can all be washed away

By the one who's strong, can right your wrongs
Can rid your fears dry, all your tears
And change the way you look at this big world
He will take your dark distorted view
And with His light, He will show you truth
And again you'll see through the eyes of a little girl
Johnny Diaz, A More Beautiful You

Be true to yourself, honor God, walk with him.