For a Girl

Ladies. I get it. I do. You think your in love. He sweet talks you. He gives you everything you could ever want. You feel like a princess right? Well it is all fine and great but is he a true upright Christian man? Does he love God more than you? Does he seek to honor you both? If he could never touch you again would you still be in love? Girls here is some hard earned wisdom.The only man worth dating is the one God would have for you. The only man worth your time loves God first and then you. He seeks to honor God and love you. To be a kind and gentle leader. He will never pressure you or push you into anything, ever. There will be no question of your boundaries, he will respect you. If he wouldn't do it in front a pastor he would never dare do it behind closed doors.
 In the words of Kellie Pickler...

Hey, there little home coming queen,
In that back seat.
I bet his brown eyes,
are promising you everything.

I know you want to be just like your friend,
But he'll still love you if you don't give in
If those girls are being honest that have been were you're at,
I bet they'd tell you that they wish they had their innocence back.

Kellie Pickler, Don't You Know You're Beautiful

It's the truth. I gave everything to a man I thought I loved, wanted to spend my with and it was the biggest mistake of my life. I am not saying that with any agenda either. Protect your heart. Save that special moment for the night of your marriage. It is not worth it to give it up anytime before that. I wish I had waited. That's the God's honest truth from someone who has been there.

For those of you who have been there as well Johnny Diaz offers this...

So turn around you're not too far
To back away be who you are
To change your path go another way
It's not too late, you can be saved
If you feel depressed with past regrets
The shameful nights hope to forget
Can disappear, they can all be washed away

By the one who's strong, can right your wrongs
Can rid your fears dry, all your tears
And change the way you look at this big world
He will take your dark distorted view
And with His light, He will show you truth
And again you'll see through the eyes of a little girl

Johnny Diaz, A More Beautiful You

Be true to yourself, honor God, walk with him.